[Image credit: David Castillo Dominici]
As a little girl, my mom taught me the value of a thank you. Following each holiday, birthday, graduation or any other special occasion, you’d find me handwriting personal notes extending my appreciation. My daughter learned early on that she didn’t get to play with or spend her gifts until a thank you was sent off. For her it eventually became a habit and at almost 20, she still takes the time to handwrite her thanks (without prompting). With the ease of communications today, however, I’m surprised to see less and less effort made to acknowledge a gift or kindness shown. How hard is it to say thank you by text or email? And why are so many parents neglecting to teach this common courtesy today? Obviously, I must’ve been born in the dark ages when please and thank you were simply a given, but now is a thing of the past. Although in my family, those two little words are still alive and well. Thank you for listening.
Is there someone you need to thank today?
May 02, 2012 @ 17:13:39
I was also raised to send a hand written card of thanks for any gift! Infact my Mom still ask if I sent a card. 🙂
Our son could not use the gift or spend money sent to him untill his thank you card was sent. He knows even now he needs to write a thank you note.
An email of thanks “counts” . However, There is nothing like hand written note to brighten the day!!
Side note, I do not do something for some one or give a gift expecting a note!!
Joy is in the giving!!
May 02, 2012 @ 17:32:56
Apparently you were also brought up in the dark ages 😉 I agree that the joy is in the giving and I don’t expect anything in return … it would just be nice to know that the gift was actually received and not lost in the mail.
Jun 28, 2018 @ 03:36:54
Thank you soooo much!!!
Jul 11, 2018 @ 15:30:39
Thank *you* for dropping by. I hope all is well in your world.