Top 2 Ways to Get the Most from Life

James R. Doty, in his book, “Into the Magic Shop,” talks about growing up in an environment of poverty and neglect. At 12 years old, he entered a magic shop and, through a simple act of kindness extended toward him, the trajectory of his life was transformed. If Doty had chosen to blame his upbringing for a lack of potential, this world-renowned neurosurgeon likely would’ve proven another sad statistic. Instead, he focused on his abilities through the power of both the brain and the heart. When tempted to obsess over our circumstances, we must, instead, choose to focus on our capabilities. In other words, rather than look for excuses to set ourselves up for failure, we should latch onto everything we can do. And then do it. I’d like to take it a step further: It also requires faith. Because faith knows we’ve already received and then acts accordingly. It’s like dressing for success before walking out the door.

Do you focus on your circumstances or your capabilities?

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You are what you think: choose wisely

Keep your thoughts positive
because your thoughts become your words.
~ Mahatma Gandhi

In my post, “How to have a happy life,” I talk about how thinking differently determines the contrast between a happy life and a miserable life. In James R. Doty’s book, Into the Magic Shop, he shares the secrets to getting what we want by clarifying our intentions as we navigate the journey of our lives. A yogi instructor states: Think loving thoughts. What you think, you create. A popular Proverb touts: Be careful what you think, because your thoughts run your life. Recently, I mentioned to a yogi friend that one day, I’ll require open heart surgery to repair a defective valve I’ve had since birth. She cited Louise Hay to me, and how positive thinking cured her cancer. Everywhere I turn, I’m bombarded with reminders about the power our thoughts—and words—wield. Perhaps it’s time I take the hint and focus on creating the destiny I desire.

Are you a positive thinker?

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Taming the monkeys: Part VI, the glue + tip #2

Words we speak about an experience become the experience.
~ Derek Hough

In my post, “…Part V and thinking SMART,” I review nighttime routines and working smarter. Plus, I promise to reveal the glue that holds it all together: consistency. If you’re not seeing results, crushing your goals or manifesting your dreams, try sticking to a consistent habit, goal or practice until 1) either change occurs or 2) you need to try something new. Oh, and tip #2 that KM gave me at the start of my 45-day challenge? Quit complaining. The hard truth: complaining attracts negativity and misfortune. Don’t believe me? Try this at home (aka everywhere): Wear a rubber band on your wrist, snap it each time you complain and then switch wrists. But attempt to keep it on the same wrist for 21 days and watch what happens. Bonus: incorporate five minutes of focused gratitude into your morning routine. Check out these other resources: James R. Doty, simplemind.eu/how-to-mind-map/examples/goals, zapier.com/blog/smart-goals/.

Are you ready to attract abundance?

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