Over the past several weeks, I’ve initiated a concerted effort to make amends with people I’ve hurt, owning up to my wrongs—taking ownership for unkind words and broken promises (see ‘Turn the page to begin anew’). Perhaps you are convinced someone close to you betrayed you and, without seeking any kind of validation, you succumbed to rash assumptions and drastic measures. Then, too late, you realized your erroneous thinking. It really doesn’t matter who was to blame because, in the end, it takes at least two. And love refuses to demand its own way. Consequently, all you can do is accept your personal role in the situation and ensure that your actions, moving forward, coincide with your words. In time the door to reconciliation might open but, until then, I suggest you offer up forgiveness and goodwill. When we accept responsibility, it doesn’t expunge our wrongs, yet it does free our hearts and minds from bitterness and regret.
Is there a wrong you need to right today?
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Jan 04, 2016 @ 15:19:51
Sounds like you’ve had a transformational few weeks, Chris. I’m so happy that these changes are making such a positive change in your life…and that of others. There is a lot of healing on many levels which is inspiring!
Jan 04, 2016 @ 22:22:06
Yes, it has been transformational. But, as with all things, it has proved to be temporary. One step forward, two steps back, if you will. But I learn as I go, and I continue to have hope 🙂
Jan 05, 2016 @ 12:39:38
Don’t give up. Any progress is worthwhile; and the lessons you are learning are part of your personal growth and improvement.