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Have you ever heard someone say they’re not good with names? I’ve always purported to be one of those people; however, I’ve been trying to make a point of remembering those who take the time to introduce themselves to me. Each time I meet someone new, I repeat their name back to them at least once. Over the past few months, if it’s convenient, I’ve also written down the names afterward. And when I attend a regular function, I make it a point to learn at least two new people each time I attend whatever it is. I know how impressed I am when someone remembers my name because I feel important enough for them to take the time to give me thought. I like that feeling and I imagine others do, too. If I can’t remember, I’ll admit my forgetfulness and keep working on it. But I think it’s more than just the name — it’s taking the time to care.
What is your secret to remembering names?
Oct 17, 2012 @ 15:34:21
Since I started yoga I’ve noticed how much people using my name means to me. I don’t know what it is, but everyone there is so kind and it made me realize that knowing someone’s name and saying it to them creates a kind of bond. I guess you can’t begin a friendship without knowing someone’s name, unless of course you’re my six year old. I enjoy being able to say hello to Sue, Sam, Kay, Vandy, Emily and Ryan when I go to yoga. They all know my name and it seems to add something to our practice that we’re all there, present, together. Maybe it’s a feeling of community. I’m not sure what exactly it is but it’s a lovely feeling.
Oct 17, 2012 @ 18:05:24
~ well written, my lovely friend. It *is* a lovely feeling. It goes beyond formality and draws another human being into our world. It says, “you’re more than just a face to me. You belong.”